Dilute calico describes a coat, not a breed. It's a white cat with patches of blue-gray and cream, the pastel version of the classic black, orange and white calico. Most are domestic shorthairs or longhairs, though the pattern also turns up in Persians, Maine Coons and British Shorthairs. Nearly all are female, because the orange color gene rides on the X chromosome.
Coat color says little about personality, so dilute calicos in Jersey City range from cuddly to reserved. A cat's age and background matter more than its patches, so spend time with a cat before deciding. Most live comfortably as indoor cats, which fits apartment living. Expect moderate shedding, weekly brushing for longhaired cats, and a lifespan of 12 to 18 years.