This is tom! 8 weeks old male! He's the shy one, timid. Once he gets to know you he's friendly!! He's just shy to strangers or anyone he's unfamiliar with. We found these kittens because we notice tom had an eye infection and upper respiratory infection, wasn't eating so we took all three of them in from their mother. We took them to the vet and tom is fully healthy no respiratory infection or eye problems :).