Esme is judging you. It’s what she does. She watches. Esme won’t give you directions but believe me she has an opinion about what you’re doing. Esme will need time to adjust when moving into a new home. She’ll always know where you are (even if you don’t know where she is). Given time Esme will come and seek cuddles, but then will return to being your homes beautiful gargoyle. Esme IS motivated by food, and has never turned down lounging in a good box. She is good with other cats and would probably do best being adopted with another cat or going to a home that already has a cat(s).